How To Get An Aries Man Back After A Breakup

So, you want to know how to get an Aries man back after a breakup.

It’s understandable — after all, Aries men are 

  • Charming
  • Assertive
  • And passionate.

If you want to get your Aries ex back, you’re in the right place.

Let’s get started.

How Do Aries Feel After a Breakup?

Aries men do not like to be dumped. 

If he suspects the relationship is on the rocks, he’ll try to be the first to cut and run. 

Aries is the first zodiac sign, which means they are the babies of the zodiac. This is what gives them their lust for life, competitive nature, and fiery temperament.

It also means that he tends to be impulsive. Whatever he wants, he wants it now, often without thinking it through. 

This means that, with time, he may realize he wants to get back together with you.

But before he does, he will probably appear to move on very quickly. He might start seeing someone new or make drastic changes in his life.

If this happens, don’t despair. There’s still a chance to get him back — if you follow the steps I outline below.

However, if you dumped your Aries man and now regret it, be prepared for backlash. 

He will likely be upset and might start playing games or trying to make you jealous.

If this happens, don’t react. Playing him at his own will not make him want to get back with you.

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Will an Aries Man Miss You After a Breakup?

That depends on you. If you constantly text him, he will see you as clingy and desperate. 

This is a big turn off for an Aries man and is likely to drive him away. 

He won’t have a chance to miss you if you’re popping into his inbox every day, and it will remind him of why you broke up in the first place.

On the other hand, the Aries man is a romantic at heart, and if you maintain your distance and an air of mystery, it may be enough to make him miss you.

And if you can make him miss you, there’s a better chance he’ll want you back.

If you want to know how to make an Aries man miss you, see my five steps to get an Aries man back below.

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Do Aries Regret Breakups?

Because of their impulsive nature, Aries men often do regret breakups, especially if they were the one to break up with you.

Even if it seems like your Aries guy has already moved on, there’s still a chance he might regret his decisions if you give him enough time.

However, if you broke up with him — and especially if you cheated on him — he is more likely to be angry and want to close the door on your relationship for good.

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How Do Aries Deal With Breakups?

At first, an Aries man may appear to move on very quickly. Often, he will start dating someone new.

But sometimes, this is just a defense mechanism. 

For, despite their strong exterior, Aries men are soft on the inside. 

Sometimes, they want you to think they have moved on as a way of getting back at you.

Or they look for something (or someone) new as a distraction from their heartbreak.

If, after some time apart, an Aries man realizes he wants to get back together with you, he will make sure you know it by making grand, romantic gestures.

But if that doesn’t happen, take it as a sign that he has moved on from the relationship — and that you should, too.

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How Do You Make an Aries Man Jealous After a Breakup?

If you want to know how to get back at an Aries man, my advice is — don’t. 

It may be tempting to play games, especially if you see him flaunting his new love interest in your face.

But if you really want him back, the best thing you can do is…nothing.

Aries is a fire sign and is ruled by the planet Mars. This means Aries men are quick to anger, and their anger is explosive.

Your Aries man will see straight through any games you try to play with him and when he does, he will feel he can no longer trust you. 

Aries man needs a loyal and supportive partner he knows he can always depend on, so if you lose his trust, the chances he will come back are low.

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What to Do if Your Aries Man Wants to Be Friends After a Breakup

If your Aries guy wants to be friends with you after a breakup, take it as a good sign. It shows he wants to keep you in his life.

Just make sure you’re not too readily available for him, and try not to initiate contact, no matter how tempting it may be.

He will be much more likely to come back to you if you just let him be. Respond to his messages, but not straight away. 

If you absolutely must contact him, find ways to share things that you know he will be interested in.

Avoid bothering him with small talk or asking him questions about where things went wrong — dragging up the past will drive him further away.

Related: Signs An Aries Man Is Using You & How To React

How Do You Get an Aries Man Back?

Aries men are a challenge to win back. You have to use reverse psychology to make him come back to you.

If you’ve checked the compatibility of your zodiac signs and you’re ready to get your Aries man back, here’s what you need to do.

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How to Get an Aries Man Back in 5 Steps

1. Play It Cool

If you want to know how to make an Aries man obsessed with you, this is the key. 

This will be easier for the more laid back zodiac signs, like Aquarius or Taurus. But if you’re an impatient Libra, Capricorn, or even a fellow Aries, taking it easy may be more challenging.

However, it is important for anyone who wants to attract an Aries man, since he loves the thrill of the chase.

If you make it too easy for him, he will quickly lose interest.

But, because Aries men are romantics, if you have made him fall in love with you before, you can do it again.

And, although it might seem counterintuitive, the best way to do so is to give him space.

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2. Give Him Time

Giving an Aries man time and space is the perfect recipe for making him miss you. 

Aries men love being the center of attention, so without yours, he will start to feel something is really missing in his life.

Even if he starts to show signs of interest in you again, do not give in to the temptation to text him constantly. Instead, let him be the one who comes to you. 

One of the best ways to regain his interest is to keep your cards close to your chest — it’s important to let him think he’s the one chasing you.

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3. Don’t Make Him Jealous

An Aries man values loyalty, so if you hope to win him back, you need to show him your unwavering devotion to him (while also giving him space).

As soon as he learns you’re dating another man, he will believe it’s over between the two of you.

Even if he tries to make you jealous or plays games, doing the same to him is never a good idea if you have hopes of getting back together.

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4. Reinvent Yourself

If there’s one thing an Aries man loves, it’s novelty.

And, while you can’t become a different person, you can reinvent yourself.

Get a haircut or a new wardrobe. Take a trip, learn something new, pursue your passions, or get a new job.

Aries men are like magpies — they are drawn to things that are shiny and new. 

Never underestimate reinventing yourself as a way to regain — and keep — his interest.

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5. Live Your Own Life

An Aries man likes a strong, independent partner and gets turned off if they feel you are getting too desperate or clingy. 

Being a fire sign, he is also attracted to passion and drive, so he’ll be impressed when he sees you pursuing your goals.

Because Aries man is highly competitive, he wants to win the top prize. Therefore, to win him back, you must be that prize.

To Aries man, that means you are strong, independent, ambitious, and an intellectual match who can keep up with his energetic lifestyle — and look good doing it.

Make yourself your most magnetic, attractive, and appealing version of yourself, and you may find your Aries man knocking at your door.

So, now you know exactly how to get your Aries man back in five steps.

Would you add anything else? 

And if you use these steps to win back your Aries man, share your story with me in the comments.

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About The Author

Bijan Kholghi is a certified life coach with the Milton Erickson Institute Heidelberg (Germany). He helps clients and couples reach breakthroughs in their lives by changing subconscious patterns. His solution-oriented approach is based on Systemic- and Hypnotherapy.