How To Make An Aries Man Obsessed With You: 21 Ways (2024)

Are you wondering how to make an Aries man obsessed with you? This guide features 21 ways to impress an Aries guy.

In my role as life coach, I am often helping clients improve their relationships with themselves and those around them. 

That’s why I’m excited to share this guide with you. 

So, let’s dive in. 

What Are Aries Men Attracted To?

An Aries man is best-known for being strong-willed, bold, confident, outgoing and passionate. Aries is a fire sign, after all. He usually wants to live life to the fullest, and that’s why he searches for a partner to suit his adventurous lifestyle. Aries men are rarely interested in shy or nervous women who like to stay in their comfort zone. Instead, they’re looking for outgoing, fun and independent women to date. 

How To Make An Aries Man Obsessed With You 

Below, you’ll find 21 tips to become an Aries man’s obsession. The more of these tips you can add to your behavior around him, the more likely he’ll enjoy your company and begin to desire a relationship with you. 

How Do You Win An Aries Man’s Heart?

1. Flirt Confidently

An Aries man loves a confident woman, so what better way to impress him than by flirting with full self-assurance in your voice and body language.  

2. Show Off Your Intelligence

It takes more than a pretty face to impress an Aries guy. If you can teach him something new, that will get an Aries man interested in you too.

3. Spark An Interesting Conversation

Most Aries men have an almost childlike curiosity about new things and new experiences. If you’re able to discuss more than the same old smalltalk, that will be a huge bonus.

4. Be Spontaneous And Unpredictable

Don’t fall into the same habits and patterns if you want to attract an Aries man. They would much prefer to see some hints of an impulsive nature. So, don’t be afraid to show some spontaneity and unpredictability in your actions. 

5. Go On Adventures

Aries men love adventure, it’s one of the finer things about them. If you accept when an Aries man invites you on an adventure, that’s great! That shows you have the same goals and dreams. If you’re the one to suggest a new adventure, even better! 

6. Be Yourself

Aries men are outgoing and social enough to recognize when someone is being fake. You’ll usually make them lose interest at the first sign of fakery. You’re far more likely to impress an Aries man with a genuine smile and being unapologetically yourself.

7. Let Him Lead

Aries men are strong believers in the traditional roles between men and women, in a romantic sense anyway. Most likely, he’ll take the lead when you two are dating. You’ll just have to sit back and let him.

Chivalry is a big deal to an Aries too. So, go ahead and let him open the car door and pull out your chair on the first date, without making a big deal about it. 

8. Entertain Him   

An Aries values humor. If you can make him laugh on top of the other things in this list, you may well be his perfect match. 

9. Keep A Little Mystery

An Aries man will feel appreciated if you make the effort to get to know him. At the same time, if you maintain a little mystery when he gets to know you, this will make him obsess even more.

10. Show Some Passion

An Aries guy can be defined by his passion for life. If you can show you’re a passionate person too, this will grab an Aries man’s attention. 

How Do You Make An Aries Man Miss You Like Crazy?

How To Make An Aries Man Obsessed With You
Photo By Brooke Cagle On Unsplash

11. Give Him Space

Remember, he’s a traditional guy. Give him the space to chase you. This will make him miss you like crazy.

12. Tease Him Sexually

If you’re separated, it’s going to make your sex life suffer. Don’t be shy to let him know that – and maybe send some saucy photos to make him miss you even more.

13. Give Him The FOMO 

An Aries man will respect you and want you more if you carry on living a fun life with your friend – and without him. He’ll get the FOMO if you send him pictures of your fun social life, and it will make this Aries man chase your affection more.   

How Do You Make An Aries Man Obsessed Over Text?

14. Send Him Compliments

Aries men love to hear compliments more than most zodiac signs, so don’t hold back when texting each other. It’s likely he’ll love these small gestures. This can really strengthen your relationship when you’re apart – and he’ll surely return the favor.

15. Send Him Pictures Of Your Cool Activities

He’ll be impressed that you’re living your own life when he’s not there.  

16. Send Witty Remarks

Remember, Aries men love a good sense of humor – and that applies to texting too.  

Related: Signs An Aries Man Is Using You & How To React

How To Make Aries Man Regret Losing You

17. Don’t Chase Him 

An Aries man values an independent woman. You might be heartbroken if you split up, but the number one way to get an Aries man back is to wait for him to chase you.

18. Continue Living Your Best Life

This is the best relationship advice after a break-up, no matter what your zodiac sign is. If he somehow notices that you’re even more of an independent and strong woman than before, this is the best way to get an Aries man back.

19. How To Make An Aries Man Laugh 

Entertain him. Tell good stories. Flirt with witty banter. Don’t worry what other people think. This is the most effective way to get an Aries man excited about spending time with you.

20. Aries Man Favorite Body Part On A Woman

When it comes to physical attraction, Aries men tend to love an athletic woman. If you’ve got well-defined abs or arms, go ahead and show them off. These are likely to be his biggest turn-ons. 

21.When An Aries Man Respects You

When an Aries guy respects you, he will tell you. He’s not one to keep compliments to himself or play hard to get for no reason. Once he has an interest in dating or a long-term relationship, he’s the type of guy to be honest about that as well.

Essentially, once you’ve made an Aries man fall hard for you, there’s little left to do to get into a relationship. It should all come together nicely if you let it.  

Any More Questions About How To Impress An Aries Guy?

Thanks for reading my guide. I hope it caught your interest and that you now have a deeper understanding of what the Aries zodiac sign wants out of romantic relationships.

For what it’s worth, the most compatible signs with an Aries male are: Virgo, Cancer and Scorpio.

However, if you can demonstrate the qualities previously mentioned earlier in this guide, there’s a great chance of you becoming a woman who an Aries guy loves. You’re going to be a lot more attractive than most women he’ll come across. 

If you have any other questions about what an Aries man loves or zodiac signs in general, feel free to leave a comment below. 

It would be great to hear from you.

About The Author

Bijan Kholghi is a certified life coach with the Milton Erickson Institute Heidelberg (Germany). He helps clients and couples reach breakthroughs in their lives by changing subconscious patterns. His solution-oriented approach is based on Systemic- and Hypnotherapy.