Does Everyone Have A Twin Flame? 21 Signs You Met Yours (2024)

Does everyone have a twin flame? Have you met yours? These are the questions I’ll answer in this guide. 

In my role as a life coach, I am often encouraged to explore spiritual questions like this. 

That’s why I’m excited to share this guide with you. 

So, let’s dive in.

Does Everyone Have A Twin Flame?

While no-one knows for sure what happens on the twin flame journey, the straightforward answer is: everyone has a twin flame. Not everyone agrees with this, but it’s the most commonly suggested answer.

It’s widely agreed that you have at least one twin flame, potentially more. It might take a while to meet them – and it might not necessarily be your romantic partner. Still, it’s generally believed that you will achieve union with your twin flame when you most need it.

How Do I Recognize My Twin Flame?

These are the most common signs that you have found your twin flame in this world. 

1. The Connection Is Instant

The twin flame relationship isn’t something that builds over time. You’ll feel a spiritual connection with your twin flame immediately. 

This type of relationship isn’t simply liking someone as a friend or being physically attracted to them. Twin flame connections are deeper than other relationships.

You’ll feel an instant recognition that this person is more important than a lover or a friend. 

Related: Clear Signs Your Soulmate Is Thinking Of You

2. You Get A ‘Deja Vu’

When you unite with your twin flame, you’re likely to sense that you never met them before, even if you can’t remember when that was. This is because twin flames are believed to initially connect on a soul level outside of this world. You may have also connected on a physical level in your past lives.   

3. They Have A Deeper Understanding Of You Than Anyone Else

This is the key telltale sign of a twin flame relationship. You’ll often feel they have a deeper understanding of your soul than anyone else. It’s almost as if your soul split into two halves before you were born and they have the other half. Either that or you’re sharing the same soul. In fact, this is partly where the term soul mate comes from. 

4. You Understand Them Too

If you truly are twin flames, you’ll have a deep understanding of who they are and what they’re trying to achieve with their life. 

Related: Soul Family: 22 Facts You Should Know

5. You Have An Almost Psychic Connection

In the strongest personal relationships, two people are able to tell how each other are feeling without either of them having to say a word. This connection is particularly strong within twin flame relationships.  

6. It Might Feel As If You’re Related

Your twin flame might not be a lover, brother, sister or cousin, but you’ll have such a strong bond that it feels like you are long-lost family members. 

7. You Tend To Have Similar Values

If you tend to agree on the important issues in this world and your values about certain things, that’s another sign of a twin flame relationship. 

8. You Complement Each Other

Do you feel more complete when you’re together? Do your personalities complement each other? That’s another giveaway of a twin flame relationship.   

9. The Relationship Is Intense 

When twin flames interact, emotions tend to be amplified, especially during the “honeymoon phase” of meeting each other. The highs are higher and the lows are lower. It’s as if everything you discuss seems to matter so much more than usual. 

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10. You’re Taught Important Life Lessons Around Them

Have you learned lessons around this person that you know you’ll use throughout different stages of your life? Did they help you get through incredibly challenging times? This is another telltale sign of a twin flame relationship. In fact, twin flames are destined to cross paths when one needs to learn an important lesson. 

Related: Clear Signs That Someone Is Your Platonic Soulmate

11. Your Individual Growth Skyrockets After Meeting Them

Your emotional and spiritual growth will increase magnificently once you meet your twin flame. This is when your journey to become a better version of yourself tends to go into hyperdrive. 

12. They Push You To Be A Better Person

You may find that your twin flame consciously pushes you to complete the inner work needed to improve as a person. And why wouldn’t they? This person knows your potential and the universe has sent them to help you meet it. 

13. They Help You On Your Mission

All souls are sent to Planet Earth with a divine mission in order to achieve spiritual growth. The purpose of your twin flame is to assist you on this journey.

Indeed, once you have spiritually evolved, you may notice you’re split from your twin flame shortly afterwards. The separation is physical, although you’ll still feel their presence in your own soul.     

14. You Understand Yourself Better

If you weren’t sure who you are or what you meant to do with your time in this world, you’ll usually find this becomes clearer after you meet your twin flame. 

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15. You’re Drawn To Them Physically

Did you spot a stranger in a crowd and find yourself drawn to them? Did you have a feeling that you simply had to meet them? Did it feel like the universe was pushing you together? This might have actually been the case if you are twin flames.  

16. You Keep Reuniting

If you keep reuniting by chance, this could be the universe ensuring your twin flame helps you complete the purpose of your intended spiritual growth journey. 

17. You Feel Comfortable “Being Yourself” With Them

You usually have no problem “being yourself” around your twin flame. In fact, they encourage you to embrace your uniqueness more than most people.  

18. You Know They’ll Be In Their Life Forever

This is a feeling you’ll get when you meet your soul mate in a romantic sense. A twin flame might not be a lover and they might not be physically by your side throughout every journey of your whole life, but you’ll sense that this rare connection will remain with you throughout both your lives.     

Related: Strong Signs Of Telepathy In Love

19. Your Yearning For A Twin Flame Disappears

When you haven’t met your twin flame, you will often feel a subtle emptiness in your soul. It’s almost as if your soul is quietly yearning for something, but you’re not sure what. This yearning disappears the moment your twin flame emerges.

It’s extremely rare for your soul to feel so light. This is an explanation of how you “just know” when you have a twin flame relationship with someone.   

20. Your Belief In Spirituality Rises

Not everyone believes in spirituality or twin flames. Perhaps you made a point of not engaging with spirituality until your twin flame arrived.

Indeed, it’s common for someone to laugh off the idea of soul mates or other spiritual connections until they find one themselves. 

21. You Miss Them When They’re Gone

If you have a deep longing for someone after they’ve gone, that’s another key sign your twin flame journey has begun. 

Related: Clear Signs Of Unexplainable Connection With Someone

Frequently Asked Questions About Twin Flame Relationships

Let’s round off this article with the answers to some frequently asked questions about twin flames. 

Are Twin Flames Meant To Be?

Yes, the twin flame union happens on a spiritual level before your two bodies emerge on Earth.   

What Happens When You Meet Your Twin Flame?

You’ll immediately feel it on a subconscious level once you’ve met your twin flame. Their journey to assist you on your mission has begun. 

Twin Flame Vs Soulmate

Twin flames and soul mates have a lot of similarities. The key difference is that a soulmate is more associated with romance, whereas a twin flame might not be. You can learn about the differences between a soulmate and a twin flame in this article about the ‘soul family’.

Signs Twin Flame Is Thinking Of You

Your twin flame may not always be by your side, but it’s said you’ll get a warm feeling in your soul when they’re thinking of you. 

How To Find Your Twin Flame

There’s nothing you can consciously do to reach union with your twin flame. The universe will send them when you most need it. Once that happens, you’ll feel it in your soul. All you need to do is accept this special connection and let it happen. For more information, see this guide on Twin Flame Reunion – Clear Signs It Is Coming.

What Are False Twin Flames?

Occasionally, you’ll meet someone who you believe to be your twin flame only for it to not be true. You can learn more about this in my guide on CLEAR Signs You’ve Met Your FALSE Twin Flame.

Any More Questions About Twin Flame Relationships?

Thanks for reading my guide on twin flame relationships. Hopefully, you now have a stronger idea when twin flames meet that you can take on your own journey of life. 

If you have a point to make or a question to ask about twin flames, feel free to leave it in the comments section below. It would be great to hear about your own twin journey too. 

I’ll do my best to reply to every comment.   

About The Author

Bijan Kholghi is a certified life coach with the Milton Erickson Institute Heidelberg (Germany). He helps clients and couples reach breakthroughs in their lives by changing subconscious patterns. His solution-oriented approach is based on Systemic- and Hypnotherapy.