Social Coach – 10 Facts Checklist (2021)

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Ready to learn how to overcome anxiety and be more confident around people?

Awesome!

In this post, I’ll explain how a social coach can help you boost your confidence and develop the social skills required to establish and maintain healthy and fulfilling relationships.

Here’s what you’ll learn.

Let’s get started.

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#1. Who is a Social Coach?

A social skills coach is an individual who helps clients develop the skills necessary to interact with the people around them successfully.

#2. What Does a Social Skills Coach do?

The concept of a social skills coach is something that most people don’t understand. To most, being social is something you’re born with. It’s not a skill that you can learn.

However, this is precisely what social skills coaching is all about.  

A social coach helps their clients to develop the confidence required to make them more sociable. Social skill coaches help clients improve social communication skills, which in turn, helps them form stronger bonds with people around them.

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#3. What is Social Skill Coaching?

In sports, people hire coaches to help them improve specific skills.

A basketball player will hire a coach to help him improve his shooting; an athlete will hire a trainer to help her improve her speed.

The same goes for social coaching.

People will hire a social skills coach to help them improve their social intelligence. Social skill coaching helps individuals develop skills such as

  • Self-awareness,
  • Assertiveness
  •  Interpersonal skills,
  •  Verbal communication, and
  • Non-verbal communication 

But why are these skills so essential?

#4. Why is Social Intelligence Important?

People are complex. Every person is different.

Which is why it’s crucial to have the right skills to deal with different types of people.

This is where social intelligence comes in.

According to Psychology Today, social intelligence is the ability to communicate, interact, and form meaningful relationships with others.

People with high social intelligence tend to be better listeners and communicators, which are essential skills in developing and maintaining meaningful relationships. They understand social rules and attune themselves to other people’s feelings; therefore, know what makes other people tick.

In summary, a person with high social intelligence can work with others in cohesion and empathy. 

However, most people struggle with social intelligence. They don’t know how to communicate with others. This leads to feelings of not being enough and low self-esteem.

Which is why social skills coaching is important.

The next section discusses how social skills coaching can help develop social intelligence.

#5. Benefits of Social Coaching

The proliferation of social media, emails, and instant messaging has resulted in reduced social interactions among people. Communicating behind screens has resulted in most people feeling anxious and less confident during interpersonal interactions.

Which is why social coaching is so important. Social skill coaching allows you to

  • Uncover the issues that keep you from developing successful interpersonal relationships.
  • Develop and master social principles that you need to connect with other people successfully.
  •  Discover essential tools to help you feel confident in social environments.

With the help of a social skills coach, you’ll be charming and friendly, which is essential in forming meaningful relationships with other people.

But you may be wondering,” can’t my friends help me improve my socialization skills.”

Well no!

While some of your friends may be the most social people you know, they lack the skills to improve your social intelligence. Your friends will most likely tell you to smile more, or just be more confident—as if you haven’t been trying.

On the other hand, a social coach digs deep into the issues that prevent you from being social. He or she keeps you accountable and gives you essential feedback on what you’re doing right or wrong.

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#6. Fields where Social Coaching can help you

Are you the kind of person who:

  • Is always nervous at social gatherings?
  • Sits at the periphery when in a group?
  • Finds it hard to approach and have meaningful conversations with women or men?

Social skills coaching can help with these, among other issues. You can use a social skills coach to improve the following areas of your life:

Dating and relationships

One of the most common reasons why people hire a social coach is to improve their dating life.

Yes!

Some men find it difficult to approach women due to either playing too many video games when young, focusing too much on academics, or a failure to assimilate with their new surroundings.

However, with the help of a social coach, these individuals can gain the necessary skills to approach, seduce, and attract women they like.

Negotiations

Are you always passed over for promotions at work?

Are you afraid of asking for that pay raise you sorely believe you deserve?

A social coach can help you with this. Social coaching equips you with the necessary skills required to communicate effectively with different groups of people.

And that’s not all!

A social coach helps you to develop the confidence required to approach your superiors and negotiate for a promotion or pay raise.

Special education

Do you have a relative or friend with Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD)?

You may have noticed that this individual experiences higher instances of social anxiety when around people.

This is another field where social skills coaching comes in.

With the help of a social coach, a person with ASD can better understand their behaviors and strengths and gain the skills required to better advocate for themselves.

Social skills coaching equips such an individual with the skills to understand and master the social challenges around them.

#7. Social Coaching Techniques

A social coach uses a combination of different techniques to teach their clients social skills. Some of the most common methods include:

Instruction

This is usually one of the first techniques that most social skills coaches use. Through this technique, the coach models and teaches their client the appropriate social behavior depending on the client’s goals.

If a client wants to improve their dating life, a coach will mainly teach them how to act when interacting with people they are attracted to.

Behavioral Rehearsal

Also referred to as role-play, this technique entails practicing learned skills in a simulated scenario.

In the earlier example, a coach can create a situation where the individual is required to hold a conversation with a person of the opposite sex. Using this strategy allows a client to gain the confidence and skills needed for real-world scenarios.

Corrective Feedback

When performing behavioral rehearsals, a client is bound to make mistakes. Social coaches will use corrective feedback to help improve these social skills.

In the above scenario, a coach observes the client during practice, then corrects him or her in the areas he went wrong.

Positive Reinforcement

This technique is used to reward a client for improvement in social skills. Most of the time, positive reinforcement is usually in the form of vocal praise or a supportive gesture. 

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#8. How to Choose a Social Coach

If you were to Google “Social Coaching,” you’d be bombarded with numerous websites of people claiming to be social skills coaches.

However, before choosing your coach, conduct thorough research on the individual. Here are some factors to consider when choosing your social skills trainer.

Social life

Ask yourself,

  • Is the coach in a happy relationship?
  • Does the coach have any friends?
  • Is the coach socially confident?

You don’t want to be coached by someone who doesn’t practice what they teach you. The same way you wouldn’t take financial advice from someone drowning in debt.

Their Methods

Does the coach’s approach fit your needs?

What techniques does he/ she use to train social skills? Make sure your coach uses techniques suited for the skills you’d want to develop.

Accreditation

When choosing your coach, make sure he/she is certified.

The coaching world is largely unregulated. Anybody with a website and online marketing knowledge can market themselves as a coach.

Which is why it’s essential to check for accreditation.

Your chosen coach should have received accreditation from a recognized body.

I have excellent social skills; I want to become a social coach; what should I do?

Keep reading to learn more!

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#9. How to become a Social Coach

If you’re serious about helping people improve their social skills, you’ll have to take the following steps.

Niche down

The first step to becoming a coach is to decide who you want to work with.

When it comes to social skills coaching, you can work with people with Autism, teenagers, or adults. It all depends on your preferences.

The reason for niching down is because each of these groups has unique needs.

Get the Right Training

You’ll need specialized training for the group you choose. During training, you’ll learn everything from the ethics of coaching to the psychological techniques used in coaching.

You’ll also learn the skills required to start and manage a successful social coaching business.

Get Accredited

One of the first things your clients will look for when vetting you as their coach is whether you’ve received accreditation from a professional body

Certification from such bodies demonstrates that you’re a professional who works by the highest standards.

“But how do I choose the right professional body to accredit me?”

#10. Best Coaching Certifications To Become A Social Coach

One of the most prominent professional bodies is the International Coaching Federation (ICF).

Here are six of the best life ICF-accredited coach certifications to take.

You Don’t have to Go it Alone.

There you have it.

All you need to know about social coaching.

Do you think you need a social coach?  Do you have any other questions about this coaching method and how it can help improve your life?

Tell us in the comments below.

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