24 Signs A Pisces Man Is Playing You (2024) & How To React

Welcome to my comprehensive list of signs a Pisces man is playing you and how to react. 

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A Pisces man generally is the perfect gentleman, but that doesn’t mean there aren’t some players born under this zodiac sign.

If you’re dating a Pisces, you’ll surely want to know the signs a Pisces man is playing you, so you can escape this relationship as soon as possible.   

In my role as a life coach, I am often helping clients better understand themselves and those closest to them. 

That’s why I’m keen to share this guide with you.

Let’s dive in.

How Does A Pisces Man Treat His Woman?

Pisces men are hopeless romantics. They like to court their romantic interest slowly and spoil her tremendously once they’re in a relationship.

You can expect to be wined, dined and treated like a princess in a relationship with a Pisces man. You can expect romantic gestures and expressions of admiration.

How Does A Pisces Man In Love Behave?

A Pisces man will usually take his time to choose his partner. Most women will be deemed unsuitable for him. 

However, once he’s emotionally invested in a great partner, he’ll always be excited to spend time with her and make her feel treasured.

He’s the type of guy to invest in a few deep emotional connections, rather than being hyper-social throughout his personal life. For that reason, he’s usually more interested in spending time with his beloved partner than anything else.

A Pisces tends to be a private person and may feel uncomfortable sharing personal details or embracing his emotions publicly, but he’ll be happy to open up to his woman once he’s in love. 

Pisces Man Red Flags

As much as they sound like a perfect boyfriend, there are also some ‘players’ born under the Pisces sign.

Pisces players tend to be very secretive of their behavior and guarded with their emotions. 

Below, you’ll find a list of the most obvious signs a Pisces man is playing you.  

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24 Signs A Pisces Man Is Playing You

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1. No Compliments

A Pisces man in love enjoys honoring his partner with compliments. If he’s not doing that, it’s a sign he’s only messing around with you. 

2. He’s Not Touchy-Feely

Many Pisces men show their affection with physical touch. If he’s not a touchy-feely guy (away from the bedroom), that’s a reliable sign that he’s not interested in a relationship. 

3. No Public Displays Of Affection

Pisces men are usually romantic people. If you’re not kissing or holding hands in public, you can assume he’s looking for a real relationship with you. 

4. He Keeps His Emotions Locked Away

A Pisces guy will open up his emotions when he’s truly in love. If he’s still locked his emotions up, he’s not in that place with you yet. 

5. He’s Distant 

If he acts shady and doesn’t seem present with you, that’s a clear sign he’s not serious about you. A Pisces man will always focus his attention on his true love when he’s with her. 

6. He Doesn’t Talk About His Private Life

A Pisces man is excited to share the details of his day with his dream woman. If he’s choosing to stay silent, that’s a sign you shouldn’t consider yourself an important part of it.

7. He Shows No Interest In Your Life

It’s common that a Pisces man tests you when he’s interested in a relationship. He’ll usually seek detailed information about your life to understand you on a deeper level and discover whether you’re truly suitable for him.  

If he doesn’t know basic details like your best friends’ names or your favorite restaurant, that’s a reliable sign he’s only interested in messing you around.  

8. No Gifts

A Pisces man enjoys showering his partner with gifts if he can afford it. A player won’t do this for his side-chick though. 

9. He’s Slow To Text You Back

Does it seem like he’s playing games and ignoring your messages? A Pisces man won’t do this when he’s in love.

10. He Does The Bare Minimum 

A Pisces in love will go the extra mile for his partner. A player will use minimal effort to keep her around.

11. No Interaction On Social Media

A Pisces in love will be excited to post pictures of his partner on social media and respond to her pictures. If he’s not doing that, you might not be a serious romantic prospect for him. 

12. He Doesn’t Prioritise You 

If he prioritises playing video games or goofing around with his friends over you, that’s not a good sign.

13. He Doesn’t Treat You Different To Other Women 

A Pisces in love treats his partner like a goddess. If he treats you the same as other girls, that’s a clear sign you’re not special to him. 

14. He Cancels Plans

A Pisces isn’t one to cancel plans on his true love unless he absolutely has to. 

15. Selfish

A Pisces in love always puts his partner first. A player will always put himself ahead of the women in his life.

16. He Rarely Initiates Contact   

A Pisces man in love might initiate contact with his partner every day he’s not in her presence. If you’re always the one reaching out to talk to him, he’s not serious about you. 

17. You Don’t Meet His Loved Ones 

If you’re never meeting his friends and family, take that as a sign he doesn’t see a long-term future with you.

18. He Doesn’t Take You On Dates 

If he only meets for ‘Netflix and Chill’ sessions, wake up! That’s a classic player move. It’s one that a Pisces man wouldn’t engage in if he was serious about you. 

19. He’s Vague About His Whereabouts

This is another telltale sign of a player. If he’s playing games and keeping secrets, he’s not a Pisces in love.

20. He Doesn’t Care Where You Are

A Pisces man likes to keep his partner at arm’s length. This possessiveness is one of his flaws. But if he doesn’t care where you’re going without him, it probably means he’s not interested in a committed relationship.  

21. He Avoids Discussing Future Plans

If this guy isn’t excited to plan his future with you, it’s usually because he doesn’t see a future with you. 

22. He Makes Excuses

If he’s always making excuses for messing around and doesn’t seem to feel bad, you have every reason to question your relationship. A Pisces male in love puts his partner first and isn’t shy about showing that he cares. 

23. He Lies

A Pisces guy is well-known for his honesty. If you catch him lying, that’s a brutal giveaway that he’s playing you.

24. Your Intution Tells You

When a Pisces man loves you, he’ll make it obvious. If you feel insecure in your relationship or he always puts you in a bad mood, there’s every chance he’s not serious about you.

A Pisces man in love will take care not to hurt a woman’s self-esteem or to be a burden to her mental health.

If he’s not serious about you, you’ll see it in his body language and you’ll hear it in his words. 

The signs will be right in front of your eyes. It’s down to you to stop denying your suspicions.  

How Do You Know If A Pisces Man Is Serious About You?

If you’ve not witnessed these signs a Pisces man is playing you, there’s a good chance he wants a serious relationship.

When a Pisces man falls in love, he’s not one to hide his emotions. He’ll make it pretty obvious.

Pisces men really are wonderful partners once they fall for you. You can expect him to make a big deal of your relationship. Often, he’ll completely ignore other women in his life once he believes he’s found his perfect match. 

Honestly, there’s no need to list all the signs. If you’re doubting whether he’s serious about you, there’s a good chance he isn’t.

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How Do You Make A Pisces Man Obsessed With You?

A Pisces man really values purity. He wants to date someone he’s proud to show off to his family and friends.

A Pisces men values deep conversations and a strong emotional connection, rather than a sex symbol who can rock his world in the bedroom (although that would be a nice bonus). 

The best way to make a Pisces man obsess over you is to show your value as a loyal and trustworthy life partner. Do that and you’ll pass the Pisces man test.  

It’s best to avoid talking about your exes and your wild adventures as a single woman. That could be a major red flag. Don’t be the type of partner who likes to play mind games or give mixed signals either. These are the types of behaviors that put off Pisces men, rather than make them chase you more.

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Any Questions?

Thanks for reading my list of signs a Pisces man is playing you. 

For what it’s worth, you can expect the same behaviors from a Pisces woman too. This water sign is well known for doing all the right things when they’re serious about a relationship. If your Pisces partner isn’t making their love clear, you can take that as a huge red flag.

If you have a question to ask or some final thoughts to share about dating Pisces men, feel free to leave a comment below. 

It would be great to talk further about this topic – and I’d love to hear from you.

About The Author

Bijan Kholghi is a certified life coach with the Milton Erickson Institute Heidelberg (Germany). He helps clients and couples reach breakthroughs in their lives by changing subconscious patterns. His solution-oriented approach is based on Systemic- and Hypnotherapy.