25 Best Boosting Self-Esteem Questions

Top 25 Self-Esteem Questions To Help You Unlock Your Infinite Potential (Starting TODAY)

The self-esteem questions in this article will change your life.

Before we dive deeper, let me share some soul food with you…

Too many people overvalue what they are not and undervalue what they are.” — Malcolm S. Forbes.

Do you feel like Malcolm Forbes’ words of wisdom resonate with you?

It’s time we get down to some real action!

In this guide, you will find 25 of the best questions to boost your self-esteem.

Because YOU have the power to paint a new mental picture in your head.

Start making the most of your gorgeous skills and talents!

Let’s dig in.

Life-Changing & Mind-Blowing: Boost Self Esteem Questions Cheat Sheet

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How about we skip the sweet talk, shall we?

Fasten your seatbelts!

We are jumping straight to the self-esteem questions cheat sheet below.

#1 – What are the things you are good at?

#2 – When do you feel self-sufficient?

#3 – What are your core beliefs and values?

#4 – How often do you fall victim to other people’s opinions?

#5 – What do you love the most about your body?

#6 – What activities make you feel alive, happy, fulfilled?

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#7 – What are your limiting beliefs?

#8 – What does healthy self-esteem mean to you?

#9 – How can you help others with your unique skills, talents, and qualities?

#10 – How often do you doubt your professional/ personal competence?

#11 – Is your self-esteem a product of positive self-talk (or exactly the opposite)?

#12 – How can you transform painful experiences/ events from the past into positive lessons?

#13 – How can you help yourself improve the things that make you feel out-of-ease?

#14 – What does success mean to you?

#15 – Who are the positive people in your life?

#16 – Who are the negative people in your life?

#17 – Are you setting healthy boundaries?

#18 – What was your favorite moment this year/ this week/ today?

#19 – Which inspirational (famous) people have also faced self-esteem issues?

#20 – How can you make yourself proud today?

#21 – In which past situations in your life you have been a king (queen)?

#22 – In which past situations you have been a warrior?

#23 – What about past situations when you have been a magician?

#24 – In which past situations you have been a hero?

#25 – In which situations in the past have you been a lover?

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Self Empowerment Time: Manifest the Positive Change for the Better RIGHT NOW

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The questions above will help you re-establish your relationship with healthy self-esteem.

The truth is, not even the best life coach can help you unless you try!

Dare to try feeling a different way about your beautiful self.

Remember, there are no right or wrong answers.

The goal is to be honest with yourself.

Take your time and feel good about it!

Recognize your feelings.

Thus, you can overcome faulty, built-in limitations and blockages.

Now, shower yourself in generous splashes of self-love.

Oh yes, boosted self-esteem feels WONDERFUL!

Moreover, be kind to yourself.

Avoid answering all the questions at once.

Instead, find a comfy spot and a suitable hour.

Create an ambient atmosphere.

Finally, calm your breath.

All the time you need is yours.

Make yourself feel one with the things you love the most.

Ask yourself the right questions.

Afterwards, re-read your answers one bite at a time.

And you will find endless light even in the darkest corners of your soul.

YOU are your best friend and your worst enemy, based on your actions.

Your mental and physical health is your responsibility.

Spread positive energy.

Eliminate negative self-talk.

Make the most of your time.

Allow yourself to feel content and confident in your skin.

Have solid faith in your value!

Day after day. Step by step.

You yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection.” — Buddha

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Cultivating Happiness: The 8 Components of Healthy Self-Confidence

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Are you eager to (finally) feel good about yourself?

Then start paving your way to becoming a high self-esteem ninja.

Above all, you want to go through the self-esteem questions I shared with you.

Nonetheless, you need to think about the bigger picture: cultivating self-confidence.

Indeed, self-esteem is intricately related to inner confidence.

Below is a list of the “secret” ingredients of healthy inner confidence.

“What lies behind us and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us.” — Ralph Waldo Emerson

In a big bowl, combine 1 teaspoon of:


Now, all you need is to shake the magical concoction really well.

Add a dash of your free time. Sprinkle with consistency, patience, and dedication.

Top with a smile and watch the positive things in your life flourishing!

Important Notes:

I know that it can feel quite puzzling trying to find the difference between the terms above.

So I want to assure you that you don’t need to figure it all at once!

Really, the best things in life do take time.

But when you believe in the beauty of your dreams, you are ready to take the leap.

Even when the leap means diving deep into the unknown.

The key to success is to face your self esteem issues.

And then take action

Help yourself by overcoming these nasty intruders plaguing your mind!

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Quick Low Self Esteem Test: (A Short Way To Get 100% Honest With Yourself)

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Here comes a punchy low self-esteem test.

1. Why do I keep failing to get that promotion?
2. How come my personal (professional) life is such a failure?
3. Do I really deserve love?
4. Why am I not good enough for…?
5. Why doesn’t he/she find me attractive?

If your answer is YES, you get 20% OFF your me-and-my-healthy-esteem score.

The worst piece of advice you can give to yourself?

Asking questions based on NEGATIVITY!

Why do I keep failing to get that promotion? VS. What can I do to get that promotion?

You see, the information you serve to yourself truly matters.

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High Self Esteem Practitioner – “Every Great Journey Starts With A Small Step”: Final Notes

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Have you become a prisoner of what others may, would, could say about you?

You never had (and will never have to) prove anything to anyone but to yourself.

You are worthy of all the beautiful things your heart craves for.

Because YOU are the author of your reality. Even when the voice of self-doubt is trying to tell you the opposite.

You are born to make this world a better place!

Did you enjoy reading this article?

Do the self-esteem questions strike a chord with you?

I am always happy to hear your thoughts, ideas, and experience!

Join me in the comment section below.

You can make it. I believe in you. Always.” —
Sincerely, the voice of your highest Self.

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About The Author

Bijan Kholghi is a certified life coach with the Milton Erickson Institute Heidelberg (Germany). He helps clients and couples reach breakthroughs in their lives by changing subconscious patterns. His solution-oriented approach is based on Systemic- and Hypnotherapy.