17 Ways How To Beat An Aries Man At His Own Game (2024)

Want to know how to beat an Aries man at his own game? Consider this your ultimate guide to doing so.

How To Beat An Aries Man At His Own Game
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In my role as a life coach, I am always helping clients better understand themselves and those closest to them.

That’s why I’m keen to share this guide with you. 

So, let’s dive in.   

1. Do Aries Play Head Games?

Aries is a fire sign. That generally means Aries people have big personalities. An Aries man tends to be very passionate, charming and flirtatious. This earns them a lot of friends and plenty of attention from women.

However, this passion and confidence can lead Aries men to play mind games with their lovers.

It’s not the most attractive trait of this zodiac sign. In fact, it can cause many love interests of Aries men to become angry with them.

However, it’s possible to learn how to beat Aries man at their own game – and ultimately enjoy satisfying relationships with them.    

2. How To Beat An Aries Man At His Own Game

If you’re looking to beat an Aries man at his own game, a great start is to understand what mind games he likes to play. Once you understand this, you can discover how to win.

3. Nobody Wins When You’re Playing Games In Your Relationships

A great relationship should be two people working together to get what they both want, not two people playing mind games to win against the other person.

So, when I talk about ‘winning’ mind games against an Aries man or beating him at his own game, I’m really talking about how to get into a relationship that satisfies you both.

A big part of this is convincing an Aries man that he doesn’t need to play games with you.

However, you might need to play a mind game or two to get his attention in the first place, as an attractive Aries is likely to have a few other women interested in him. 

Related: Signs An Aries Man Is Using You & How To React

4. An Aries Loves To Play The Hot And Cold Game 

You’re unlikely to immediately know if you’ve made an Aries man interested in you. This is because Aries men like to play hard to get. It’s normal for an Aries guy to be paying attention to you on WhatsApp, Instagram and other networks, only to suddenly disappear and give you the silent treatment.

An Aries man is aware that the ‘hot and cold’ treatment can make a woman chase him harder. He’ll often find this mind game to be fun. He’ll believe it gives him the upper hand keeping him one step ahead of the woman he wants.

To be honest, he’s not always wrong. It’s a well-known element of human psychology that a person values something more if it’s difficult to obtain. An Aries man is happy to use this fact to his advantage. Of all the tricks Aries men like to play, this is the most common. 

5. How To Manipulate An Aries Man

The first step is to be the type of girl that Aries men really want in their life. We’ll explore some of the key traits that Aries men go wild for in this guide, but you should also check out my guide on How To Make An Aries Man Obsessed With You for more information.

The second key step is not to bite at the first sign of disinterest from an Aries man. Remember, that he’s likely to be playing games when he decides to ignore you. So, rather than being desperate for his attention, continue enjoying your own life without him. Have fun with your friends. Chat with other men. Post pictures on your social media.

This will help you stand out from every other girl who falls for his hot and cold game. If you’re the type of woman he wants, he’ll ultimately be the one trying to talk to you. 

6. How Do You Make An Aries Man Think Of You?

An Aries man loves a challenge. If you’re not immediately falling for his charms, that’ll do a fair bit to catch his attention.

If you’re a fun, quick-witted woman with a witty sense of humor yourself, this’ll do a lot to make him want to spend more time with you. 

When you do get some alone time with an Aries man, use it to seduce him with your own feminine charm, without giving him everything he wants. 

Now you’re giving him a taste of his own medicine and you’re winning!  

An Aries man won’t be an angry sore loser though. Instead, he’ll be obsessing over how to get you back into his life.  

7. How Do You Get An Aries Man To Chase You Again?

Posting pictures on social media is a great strategy to bait an Aries man into reinitiating contact.Once he sees how much fun you’re having with your friends (and without him), he’s likely to get the fear of missing out and slide in your DMs once again.

This is far better than messaging him the pictures directly, as he’ll know you’re trying to make him jealous in this case.

My guide on How To Get An Aries Man Back After A Breakup features more ideas to make this guy chase you. 

8. An Aries Love Man Loves Ambitious Women

If you’re an independent woman with big dreams, you definitely want to make this clear to an Aries man. If you’re fun, witty and ambitious, he’ll feel like God sent his perfect woman down from the heavens.

At this point, he’ll find it almost impossible to ignore you – and not just because you’re seemingly his perfect woman. An Aries man will also understand that busy and ambitious career women won’t have time to deal with men who act like they’re not interested. 

9. What is an Aries Man Weakness?

An Aries is often very impatient, impulsive and highly competitive. They can become angry when they don’t get what they want straight away.

If you’re trying to beat an Aries at their own game, you can use these weaknesses to your advantage.

If you use a bit of patience in your courtship of an Aries man (instead of falling for his tricks immediately), you can inspire him to be the one chasing you. 

Related: Signs An Aries Man Is Using You & How To React

10. Don’t Compete With An Aries Man

Don’t underestimate how competitive an Aries man can be.

If you create a ‘you vs him’ situation in your courtship, you run the risk of him ghosting because he hates the idea of ‘losing’ to you so much.

It’s better to work with him to create a compromise where you’re both happy to meet up.   

11. An Aries Man Gets Bored Easily

The other risk of trying to beat an Aries man at his own game is that he tends to get bored quickly. Ignore him for too long and he’ll probably turn his attention to some other woman. It’s about finding the balance of push and pull.

12. Create A Compromise

Once an Aries man makes it clear he likes you, let him know he doesn’t need to play mind games.

Tell him it’s obvious you both like each other and ask if you can skip all the pretending now. 

The key is to act not as an opponent who trying to beat him, but a teammate who wants to win alongside him.   

13. How To Deal With An Avoidant Ariefs

If an Aries man has an avoidant attachment style, he may turn cold even when it’s obvious that you both like each other. Perhaps he becomes passive-aggressive or distant when you suggest taking your relationship to the next level.

To learn how to deal with this, see my guides on Strategies To Communicate With An Avoidant Partner and an Aries Man Confused In Love.

14. Which Zodiac Sign Is Most Compatible With An Aries Man?

The most compatible signs with an Aries male are: Virgo, Cancer and Scorpio.

15. Signs An Aries Man Is Using You

The best way to avoid these types of guys is to look out for the signs that he is a player

16. Signs An Aries Man Is Not Interested Anymore

If you follow the steps above and an Aries man doesn’t reach out, it’s likely he’s not interested in you anymore. This doesn’t mean you did anything wrong. It probably means he didn’t want anything more than a casual fling in the first place. 

Related: Tips On How To Make An Aries Man Miss You

17. Believe In Yourself

These mind games with men can be frustrating. In a perfect world, no-one would be playing them.

The key to winning is to believe in your self-worth. When you have high self-esteem and a strong belief in how a man should treat you, the men who really want you will fall into line. 

Never accept a man treating you worse than what you believe you deserve.

You can Learn More About Aries Man by clicking that link, which will take you to a directory of my most recent articles on this topic.   

Any Questions?

Thanks for reading my guide on how to beat an Aries man at his own game. I hope you found it useful for an informational and entertainment purpose.

If you want to ask a question or share some final thoughts on this topic, feel free to leave a comment in the box below.  

It would be great to hear from you and I’ll be happy to answer your questions.

About The Author

Bijan Kholghi is a certified life coach with the Milton Erickson Institute Heidelberg (Germany). He helps clients and couples reach breakthroughs in their lives by changing subconscious patterns. His solution-oriented approach is based on Systemic- and Hypnotherapy.